Auld Lang Syne
December 31, 2008 at 9:00 pm | In Family Ties, Miscellaneous Crap | 1 CommentTags: Auld Lang Syne, New Year's Eve
Here it is, 8:42 on New Year’s Eve and I’m sitting at home and the kids are in bed. My husband’s working until midnight, so that means I have no fool to kiss as the clock strikes twelve.
It seemed like not so long ago (in reality about twenty years) that the very thought of staying in on New Year’s Eve was sacrilegious. I’m a home body so I normally don’t mind hanging around the house, but it would be nice to have company – sleeping kids and cats don’t count.
I spent a New Year’s Eve online at a gaming site one lonely year. I’ve spent several at a friend’s cottage, the same cottage where when I was dating my husband, he gave me a present at midnight – a foot high stuffed ‘Bumble’ holding a star that said 2000, my millenium present. That was back when he was all romantic and crap. I didn’t care, it was sweet. Everything changes when you have kids.
I cry every New Year’s Eve at midnight. I seriously cannot help it and I don’t know why I do it. I cry at weddings, funerals, sad commercials, when someone yells at me, when I get really mad, when someone is being nice to me, when someone else is crying – basically I cry a lot. I don’t know what will happen this year, but I’m sure it will be the same – tears at midnight.
I know 2008 has been a very difficult year for a lot of people, friends, co-workers and perfect strangers. I hope 2009 will be better. If you have kids, enjoy them, cherish them – they grow up too fast. I don’t know where December went and it didn’t help this morning when the radio announcer said it was “Wednesday, January 31st”. Time is fleeting.
I wish all of you a very Happy New Year and all the best for 2009. I’ll be thinking about many of you as the old year makes way for the new. Enjoy your evening, be safe, have a drink for me.
Best wishes,
Kelly
I Can’t Sell Them, Right?
December 29, 2008 at 10:26 pm | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Family Ties, Sisters | Leave a CommentTags: holidays, time out, toddlers, vacation
What a day. I’m on vacation until January 7th and today the girls were supposed to go to the sitters’, except Lexy wasn’t feeling well when she woke up. Yes, I know what you’re thinking, it’s probably Grandma’s fault, but nonetheless… She said her head hurt and her legs were wobbly and I’m thinking ‘great, she’s got a sinus infection’. I gave her some Tylenol and she lay down on the couch for a while – long enough for the Tylenol to kick in and her sister to beat her.
The girls were supposed to go to daycare, three days this week … now it’s only two. Lexy miraculously got better about an hour after I called my sitter to say we weren’t coming in today. She’s been fine ever since. Mind you, her cheeks were really red last night too.
My adoring husband is working the night shift the next four weeks, so I had to try to keep them quiet this morning so he could sleep in.
Quiet = hahahaha good luck with that!
Not only that, but before I got Caity up this morning, I bent over to get some clothes out of Lexy’s dresser and I felt something go snap in my back. I haven’t been able to move well since and my left arm and leg are “asleep”. My back is frigging killing me and nothing’s working – not the heating bag nor the Norflex I took earlier. Mind you, the Norflex did take the edge off of the pain, but I’m considering Morphine at this point.
So anyway, here I am, hobbling around and the kids are misbehaving, badly. They’ve been out of school and daycare too long (since last Tuesday). They are getting on each others’ nerves and mine as well. Lexy tries to play with Caity but Cait only wants whatever toy Lexy currently has and then they start yelling at each other. Caity has a much smaller vocabulary and a hotter temper and that usually results in Caity either biting or hitting Lexy. Then I put Cait in a time out and then they play again and the whole vicious circle starts over again. With the pain too, my temper is even shorter than it wouldn’t normally be. Lex knows which buttons to push to put me over the edge and I think she takes great pride in pushing them.
It was a lot of fun putting Caity to bed tonight. I had to crawl up the stairs because I couldn’t walk up without groaning. Lexy went to bed screaming and having a fit and normally I would have run up the stairs after her, but not tonight. She claimed she wasn’t tired and wouldn’t go to sleep. I told her ‘fine, just lie there then’. She fell asleep about 30 seconds later.
The house is a mess. There are toddler toys all over my couch. I need to lie down and take more drugs. I need my husband home.
Thankfully I have beer.
You know, tomorrow when I’ve dropped them off at daycare, I will miss them like crazy, but for now, I think I’d like to sell them.
I’m almost looking forward to going back to work – I need the rest….
It Was a Pretty Silly Day
December 27, 2008 at 9:09 pm | In All Things Doodle, Family Ties, Toeses and Noses | Leave a CommentTags: Cinderella, Elgin Theatre, Ross Petty, Sillylicious
I’ve been waiting two months for today, ever since I bought the tickets. It was more exciting than Christmas! Well, not really, but it was a pretty silly afternoon. Lexy, Grandma and I went downtown to the Elgin Theatre to see “Cinderella: The Sillyilious Family Musical“. And silly it was!
I’ve seen Ross Petty perform before, but only on TV. I think it was a version of Robin Hood that they did about ten years ago and there was this guy with a turtle puppet … “issss ittttt??”, it was hilarious. Karen Kain was in that one. I’ve been hooked ever since. Ross Petty makes a fabulous woman. He played the hilarious evil Step Mother, Bertha Von Botox to a ‘T’. It was a pleasure to boo him. I think the people who sat around me, Grandma and Lexy included, thought I was nuts when Ross hit the stage and I started booing, loudly. Eventually everyone was doing it too – it was a lot of fun. The boys (Dan Chameroy and Adam Brazier) who played the ugly step sisters (Plumbum Von Botox and Carnivia Von Botox) were fantastic, very entertaining. It was a great balance of pratfalls for the kids and humour for the adults. Oh and the bunny slippers, were a nice touch.
The only downside to the afternoon was the absolutely spoiled beyond belief brats who sat behind me. One of them went to the concession stand to buy some Cinderella stuff and apparently didn’t come back with something for her sister like she was apparently supposed to have. The mother made her give whatever it was that she bought to the sister, so the first girl had a fit. She started crying and carrying on. Another person who was with them kept asking her if she planned on ruining the whole afternoon for everyone else, and then someone else told that kid that ‘it was OK, we’ll go shopping tomorrow, just you and me’ – sheesh. As if we don’t have enough spoiled brats as it is. Let’s condone bad behaviour with a shopping trip. Grandma and I just rolled our eyes at each other.
Despite the theatrics behind us, the play in front of us was wonderful. I definitely recommend seeing it if you get the chance. I haven’t had so much fun at the theatre in a long time. Way to go Mr. Petty!
After the play, we took a stroll along Yonge Street to see the sights. Lexy was in awe with just about everything. We saw the Christmas display at the corner of Dundas and Yonge with the Tree made entirely from lights – polar bears too. Some guy high on crack came up to Lexy and nearly scared her to death when he very enthusiastically asked her what she thought the figure were – “they’re bears!! bears!!! Bears!!!” and then disappeared into the crowd. He made Grandma and I a little nervous.
Yonge Street is definitely pretty at night in the winter when they have all the Christmas decorations up. There was the obligatory busker on the corner playing a set of pails like drums. He had quite a good beat, but Lex didn’t quite get it. All in all, it was a good day. Go see the play, they’re at the Elgin until January 4, 2009.

And a Glaedelig Jul to Everyone!
December 24, 2008 at 12:20 pm | In Daddy-O, Family Ties | Leave a CommentTags: Christmas, Christmas Traditions, Christmas tree, kids, Santa
My beloved Dad would say Glædelig Jul and my Mom would say Fröhliche Weihnachten!
Around here, it’s simply Merry Christmas! Yes, I know tomorrow is Christmas Day, but for me today is Christmas. Sadly my husband doesn’t believe in this and we won’t put the presents under the tree until tonight after the kids are asleep.
It’s not the same.
I called my Parents and my Brother this morning to wish them a Merry Christmas. I’m sure if I call my in-laws tomorrow, they will wish me the same thing, but Christmas will have already passed – for me anyway.
The more things change, the more I want them to stay the same.
I said to the kids that Daddy didn’t even wish me a Merry Christmas yet, and he grumpily said “it’s not Christmas”
I said “it is to me … ”
I want my kids to experience the best of both worlds. There’s no reason why they cannot benefit from both traditions. One tradition is not more right than the other – we need to compromise. I wish my husband would understand how important this is to me. He can get very stubborn on some things. Like the kids’ last names – I wanted them to be hyphenated and he wanted them to be singularly his. He won – although as I was filling out the paperwork for their birth records, I was tempted to put them in my name. I think that’s why when anyone asks my last name I give them my maiden name. At most, I’m hyphenated too because I ‘assumed’ my husband’s name when we married. I never changed anything on paper. I can be stubbon too. I’m not Mrs. Him, I’m Ms. Me. That tradition annoys him. Like Christmas does.
I don’t know what I’ll do when my Parents are gone and with them the tradition of Christmas Eve. I think I’ll cherish it always, but it won’t be the same. Yes, my brother and I will still wish each other a Merry Christmas on the 24th of December and my kids will have Santa visit on the 25th, but there will be a part of me that will ache for the ghosts of Christmas Past.
Merry Christmas to all my readers, friends, family and everyone else. May your stockings be full and your tree be trimmed with happy memories.
All the best, Kelly, Alex, Lexy and Caity.
And Santa’s Lesser Known Reindeer, Pupid
December 22, 2008 at 9:51 pm | In All Things Doodle, Miscellaneous Crap | Leave a CommentTags: Christmas, Santa's Reindeer
I was (trying to) explaining to Lexy the names of Santa’s reindeer
Me: “Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner, Blitzen”
Her: “Dasher, Dancer, Pupid…”
Me: “Pupid??” Thinking: WTF is Pupid??
Lexy bursts out laughing. I’m laughing too.
Her: “Mommy, what are the names again?”
Me: “Dasher, Dancer, Prancer…”
Her: Interjecting, “Pupid!”
*sigh*
Me: Still laughing, “Lex, Santa does not have a reindeer named Pupid”
Her: “Oh. Well maybe it’s a baby reindeer…”
*thunk* <— sound of my head hitting the table. “Sure Lex…”
Thankfully Christmas is almost here and then she’ll forget about this for another year … I can hope anyway…
How Come Santa Uses the Same Wrapping Paper As We Do?
December 22, 2008 at 11:01 am | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Sisters | Leave a CommentTags: Christmas, Christmas Toys, Christmas Traditions, Wrapping Paper
I think I asked my Mom that question when I was about 10, maybe a bit earlier. I can’t remember exactly when it was that I stopped believing in Santa Claus. I’d like to think that I never stopped believing, but maybe it’s the spirit of Christmas I’ve held on to.
When I was a kid, I remember looking at all the presents under the tree. Santa always came, like clockwork, on December 23rd. We always celebrated Christmas on Christmas Eve – a European tradition. It’s much more civilized, you have dinner, when the dishes are done – it’s present time! It used to confuse me that Santa seemed to use the same wrapping paper we did, but as my Mother explained, he probably shopped at K-mart too. That seemed to make sense, so I bought it.
It occurred to me as I finished wrapping the girls’ presents from Santa today that some of the presents did, indeed, have the same wrapping paper as the ones from Mommy and Daddy. I wonder how long it will be until they figure it out? I’m sure it won’t be long before Lexy asks me that very same question. Also, with Lexy being three-and-a-bit years older than her sister, will she keep up the guise of Santa for Caity’s sake when she no longer believes? Lexy, among her other cherished qualities, is a loving child. Despite her recent issues at school, she wouldn’t hurt anyone and mean it. Not truly, anyway. Yes, she gets mad and acts out, but then what child didn’t? Lexy adores her little sister and sometimes can be over-compassionate with her. Caity, of course, milks it for all its worth. Other times of course, they beat each other up and pull each others’ hair – but then they are sisters after all…
If I don’t write again this week, Merry Christmas to you and yours. I hope Santa is good to you.
More Toddler Speak
December 17, 2008 at 7:16 pm | In Caityisms | Leave a CommentTags: Toddler speak
Caity’s really learning how to play. Tonight she was trying to feed me some delicacy that she ‘created’. She had a play bowl and a crayon and started mixing it around. When she was done, she’d run over to me and say “Mommy, Mommy” and hold the crayon out for me to eat. I’d take a ‘bite’ and she’d run away.
Her: “Moy, Mommy?”
Me: “Yes Caity, I’ll have some more.”
She’d run to the sink and pretend to take water. Then she’d start the whole process over again.
Her: “Moy, Mommy?”
Me: “Yes Caity, did you make more?”
Her: Nodding vehemently “Uh huh!”
She’d continue to feed me. This game lasted about ten minutes. She took a break and is now continuing to feed me. Apparently I look malnourished to her …
She’s also very polite. Any time you give her something she says “Tenk oo, Mommy”. She says it most times without being prompted. Grandma was surprised how clear she was.
She has a new word for her sister, she calls Lexy ‘Eye-ee”. She says ‘love you’ so sweetly. At the Christmas Party when we asked her to say hi to someone, she sounded like a little a Angel … “Hiiiiii”.
She still babbles, but she’s making more sense now. “No Mommy, down!”, “All done!”, “No Mommy, shoo!” or the one she just said “No, eye-ee, why-it!” (quiet).
She amazes me every day, and she’s not even two… and then she took that aforementioned crayon and coloured on the fridge.
*sigh* amazement over.
They’ll Tower Over Me Someday
December 17, 2008 at 10:45 am | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Daddy-O, Family Ties, Miscellaneous Crap, Sisters | Leave a CommentTags: Height Calculator
Apparently both my girls will be 5′ 9″ when they reach the age of 18. I’m 5′ 2″ and my Husband is 6′ 1″ – yeah, I like them tall… it’s actually perfect because when I give him a hug, I can hear his heart beat
(I know, I know, awwww…)
http://email.babycenter.com/servlet/cc6?IHIPJQSBDTQTViLKLjkLgXsLttPxohluHptQJhuVaVCVmkLjXpKVT3u4Bfc
Check out the link above and put in your calculations to find out how tall your kids will be. Get back to me when they reach 18 to see if this thing actually works …
These Are a Few of My Favourite Things
December 16, 2008 at 10:51 pm | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Daddy-O, Miscellaneous Crap, Movies, Sisters | 1 CommentTags: Christmas, holidays, kids, Movies
My favourite Christmas movie list looks like this:
(in no particular order)
- It’s a Wonderful Life
- A Charlie Brown Christmas
- The Bishop’s Wife
- Nestor the Long Eared Christmas Donkey
- The Little Drummer Boy
- The Year Without a Santa Claus (my absolute favourite — “I’m Mr. Heat Miser, I’m Mr. Sun, I’m Mr. Green Christmas, I’m Mr. 101…“)
- Santa Claus is Coming to Town
- Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer
- Mickey’s Christmas Carol
- Jack Frost (Rankin Bass)
- Rudolph’s Shiny New Year
- The Story of the First Christmas Snow (loved this despite Angela Landsbury)
- Twas the Night Before Christmas
- The Leprechaun’s Christmas Gold
Can you see a theme here?
- A Christmas Carol (the one with Alistair Sim) – MUST be in Black and White
- Miracle on 34th Street (1947 version with Natalie Wood) – MUST be in Black and White
- White Christmas (Danny Kaye at his best, and ‘der Bingle’ too!)
- Bad(der) Santa … sorry, but I LOVE this movie. It’s so messed up!
- How the Grinch Stole Christmas (the cartoon version with Boris Karloff, not the awful Jim Carey version)
- The Santa Clause (all three are excellent)
- Holiday Inn (another Crosby classic)
- Pretty much anything by Rankin/Bass. I lived for those stop-motion kids movies when I was young. My kids are starting to love them too.
- A Muppet Christmas Carol, another classic
And it just wouldn’t be Christmas without …
- National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation! Chevy Chase makes my family look absolutely normal…
I’m sure there are many more that I’m forgetting, but anytime any one of these is on, I have to watch them. I can hear my husband’s eyes rolling up in his head as we speak. He’s not sentimental like I am. By the way honey, if any of those ended up in my Christmas stocking, I wouldn’t be upset … afterall I am on vacation for three weeks and have lots of time reserved on the couch!
What’s on your must see Christmas list? (I’d actually really like to know, so drop me a line…)
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