Makeover

November 11, 2009 at 3:00 pm | In Caityisms, Miscellaneous Crap, Product Testing | 2 Comments
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Do you notice anything different?  Do I look fabulous or what?  Slimmer you say? Why thank you!

I hadn’t been happy with my Banner Header whatchamacallitthingy at the top of my blog.  I had an idea of what I wanted it to look like, I just couldn’t get there.  With my Desktop Publishing background, I think you can appreciate how frustrating that was for me.  It’s in my head, just not in cyberspace.  I can do just about anything in InDesign, but Illustrator, forget it.  I love working with InDesign by the way.  I’m learning new stuff every day.

I follow a couple of blogs daily.  The first one (Durham Region Baby) introduced me to the second one (My Tornado Alley).  Carly had her headermathingy redesigned and I thought it looked fabulous.  Her BiFFy Jen O. designed it for her and I always admired it.  A little while ago Jen O. redesigned her own headermathingy and I commented on it being a keeper and asked if she could help me with mine.

Well what’dyouknowaboutthat?  Two rounds of comments later and we have this:

banner 2 copy

Isn’t it beautiful?

Aren’t those the most nomable toes you’ve ever seen?  Believe me, there have been many a time that I’ve nibbled on those cute little tootsies - poor Caity.  She was 9 weeks old in that picture.  She was in the middle of a fit, hence the splayed toeses.

Now back to my rave.  Jen is very talented (and hillarious to boot – read her blog) and is thinking about creating banners etc. as a side business.  I certainly recommend her if anyone is interested in having something created for their website – or just a logo in general (i.e., for Letterhead, Business Cards) – you know, between the two of us Jen, we’d make a killing.  We should talk ;-)

Drop Jen a line if you’re interested.  You can reach Jen at mytornadoalley@gmail.com

Fabulous job, Jen.  Thanks again :)

Please Always Remember and Don’t Ever Forget

November 10, 2009 at 10:21 pm | In All Things Doodle, Miscellaneous Crap | Leave a Comment
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At exactly 11:00 a.m. tomorrow, I will have tears in my eyes.  Tomorrow is Remembrance Day.  Every time I see a ceremony on TV with the WWII (and a few of the WWI) Veterans, I get very sad.  Just looking at them, crying, remembering what they went through – it must have been horrible.   I haven’t lived through a war (sorry, but that silliness that GW started doesn’t count), and I hope I never do.  My Parents lived through WWII, my Mother was in Hitler’s Germany at the time, fearful to be in public because she didn’t have the Aryan look.  My Mom won’t talk about the War, it was too painful for her.  My Dad was asked to join the Danish underground and spent time in an Italian POW camp.  It was a completely different world back then, different than what we have to take for granted today.   Too many people lost their lives, fighting for freedom or simply fighting to survive.  The minute of silence we observe each year is the least they deserve.

I remember the year before Caity was born, Lexy and I were at the Superstore at 11:00 on November 11th, 2006.  They made an announcement about observing a minute’s silence to honour the memories of those fallen in the wars.  Lexy was in the shopping cart and she chatted away like she always does.  “Shhh”, I told her.  “Why Mommy?”.  “Because it’s important, just be quiet for a minute.”  I could tell she didn’t understand and she looked around and saw a few other people stopped, heads bowed.  “What’s the matter, Mommy?”  “Shhh, Lex.”  I said again.

A young woman and her child whizzed passed us, oblivious to our stance.

“But Mommy, they’re moving.” Lexy told me loudly.  “Yes, Lex” I whispered “they’re being disrespectful” I told her.  She nodded as if she understood.  The minute was over and I tried to explain to Lexy why we had to hold still and be quiet.  I told her how it was good to remember people who fought very hard to keep our country safe and to help make others free.  She didn’t quite understand and got easily distracted by the free cookie that Superstore used to offer the kids.

Now that Lexy is in school, her school is holding a Remembrance Day Assembly tomorrow.  Now that she’s older, she’s sure to have questions.  She will try to interpret what she hears into something that makes sense to a six-year-old.  How do you explain War to a young child who lives in a peaceful society?

I want her to respect the fallen soldiers. They paid the ultimate sacrifice and gave their lives so that others may be free.  I want her to stop for a minute of silence and think about what she has and how she should be thankful for that.  I know it’s a lot and I don’t expect it at this young age, but I hope as she ages, she will understand.

There are too many people in this world who are disrespectful to their elders when they should be cherished.  Do they not realize how much we can learn from them?  I heard a story somewhere on the internet that went something like this:  A teenager is talking to a senior citizen and he’s boasting about how good life is now that we have all the electronics, the gadgets to make life easier etc.  He couldn’t understand how they got along without all this new technology back in their day.  The senior citizen simply says to the mouthy teenager – when I was younger, we were the ones who invented these gadgets, what have you done lately?

Or something like that.  I think you get the point.

Crazy Week

November 3, 2009 at 12:06 pm | In All Things Doodle, CKD, Caityisms, Daddy-O, Family Ties, Kidney Disease, Miscellaneous Crap, Sisters | Leave a Comment
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We’re off to the hospital in a few minutes.  Alex is having his PD Catheter removed because the silly thing never worked and it got infected.  They want him healed before he has the transplant.

Tomorrow I’m taking the kids to the Doctor’s office to get their H1N1 shots.  My doctor is holding a ‘clinic’ for his patients only on Wednesday (for high risk) and Saturday for the rest of us.  I’ll go on Saturday.  I’ll likely have to bring the kids too because Alex has Dialysis on Saturdays and Lord knows how long we’ll be at the office.

My Sitter’s daughter is really sick, fever, sore neck – don’t think it’s H1N1 but I’m kind of worried about her being there with the wee ones running around … She even has one of the babies sleeping in the sick girl’s room … eek.

Other than that it’s been three days I think since I’ve last visited Facebook.  Apparently that’s the right amount of time to get over an addiction.  I no longer think about having to check it all the time.  Finally some peace.

Caity’s sleeping in her big girl bed now, has been for the past two nights.  On Sunday night, we couldn’t wipe the smile off her face, she was so proud and happy to be in the bed.  It was very cute, seeing her all snuggled, clutching her blankets to her face, smiling.  She looked so little in the single bed, like a little baby in a crib.  My baby’s growing up – she’ll be three in February.  Eeek!

Lexy has decided that since Caity has a new bed, she wants one too.  She tried to tell me that she’s nearly outgrown her current single bed (not likely).  She said “look Mommy, my feet almost touch the bottom” … yeah almost touch the bottom in another two feet … nice try kid.  You’re keeping that bed for a bit.  At least until we get enough money to buy you a proper bedroom set.

Introducing the New Snuggie Crowbar

October 27, 2009 at 7:35 pm | In Miscellaneous Crap, TV Season | Leave a Comment
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Have you seen this commercial?  It’s hilarious.

The first time I saw it, I’m sure I was thinking “where’s the clicker?”, then it changed and became a Subaru commercial.  I laughed so hard.  I thought at first I was seeing things.  The tag line is brilliant too.  “Maybe you should get out more”.  I couldn’t agree with you more.

I wonder how much Subaru had to pay to defile the Snuggie commercial – great job though :)

Does anyone know anything about this ad(s)?

It’s Been a While…

October 21, 2009 at 8:16 pm | In CKD, Daddy-O, Family Ties, Kidney Disease, Miscellaneous Crap, The Crap that Men Do, Toeses and Noses | 2 Comments
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Sorry I haven’t written in a bit, been a lot going on lately.  Last Thursday was my husband’s 30th birthday.  I don’t think he was particularly looking forward to the great event.  I tried to surprise him by taking him to Dave and Busters with our friends Candace, Greg and Sib, but he claims he “knew”.  I think he knew something was up, I mean how could I forget his big birthday?  Why on earth would I want to go to the Bass Pro Shop (that’s the line of bull I fed him)?  I can’t imagine this is what he thought it was though.  Our other friends (Scott & Jessi, Brian & Sophie and Paul & Kelly) were waiting for us when we got there and it was so nice to see everyone.  Some of our group couldn’t be there because they were working, but they were thought of nonetheless.  We hadn’t been together in a long time, too long I think.  It was a wonderful night, good conversation, lots of games and too much to eat and drink!  By the way Paul, where is my Stella glass?? ;-)

On Saturday, Alex and I will have been together for ten years.  A huge milestone, especially when you consider that the longest relationship I had prior to meeting Alex lasted a total of 8 months …

In those ten years:

  • We’ve had two beautiful babies.
  • We’ve bought a house together.
  • We got married.
  • We’ve loved.
  • We’ve cried.
  • We’ve laughed.
  • Most of our friends have careers.
  • Most of our friends had either gotten married or engaged.
  • Most of our friends now have children.
  • Most of our friends have homes of their own.
  • Most of our friends have just turned/will soon turn 30.  1979 was a popular year!

In other words, we’ve grown up.

In those ten years, I finally learned what our friends’ real names were (having being introduced and only ever referred to by a nickname:  Bear, Sib, Shrigs, Suddes, Whopper, Fox).

The best part of the last ten years is that no matter what happens, no matter how long it’s been since we’ve seen each other last – if you really need them, they will be there for you.  They truly are friends and they’ve never shown it more than over these past few months that we’ve been dealing with Alex’s illness.  Thanks again everyone!

I have a good husband.  He is an amazing father.  Our children adore him, as do I – even when he’s bad ;-)

*I let Alex read this post and his only comment:  “I’m never bad” … my reaction:  pfffttt!*

A Frightening Thought

October 8, 2009 at 9:32 pm | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Daddy-O, Family Ties, Miscellaneous Crap, Sisters | Leave a Comment
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Alex and I had dinner tonight later than the girls. We made Spaghetti and the girls had grilled cheese sammies. Naturally they were still hungry and wanted to mooch some of what we had.

I made a small plate up for Lexy and I shared my dinner with Caity.

We were chatting, the four of us, while we ate.  Lexy was trying to teach Caity the “proper” way to sing the “A-B-Cs”, Caity mooched most of my dinner like she’s never eaten before.

I said to Caity that when she’s a teenager, she was going to eat me out of house and home.

Lexy said, “Who Mom?”

“Both of you.” I said.

“I’m older.” Said Lexy.  “When Caity’s a teenager, I’m going to be a parent!”

As the math calculation was quickly formulating in my head, I realized that when Caity turns 13, Lexy will only be 16.  Her Dad and I looked at each other and eyes wide I said, “NO YOU’RE NOT!”.  Obviously not realizing what she had just said, Lexy looked confused.

“Lex, you’re not even allowed to start dating until you’re 30!”

I know her comment was innocent.  I know 6 is the new 15, but really why are kids in such a hurry to grow up?  Slow down please my darling girl.  Your sister is almost 3 and you’re both growing too fast as it is.  Earlier in the evening when Lexy and I went to the store, she asked how old she had to be to sit in the front seat.  I said 12.  To her, the front seat is the power seat.  It means you’re an adult because only big people get to sit in the front.  Even at 6 years old, she understands the concept.

She’s desperate to sit up front, and I’m desperate to keep her in the back.  I wonder where the time’s gone.

Tomorrow is my Parent’s 50th Wedding Anniversary.  If I make that milestone with Alex, I’ll be 89 years old.  My Mom tells me all the time stories about when I was Lexy’s age.  I know she wonders where the time’s gone.

Next week is Alex’s 30th birthday.  I bet his Mom wonders where the time has gone too…

Vocabulary Lesson

October 6, 2009 at 10:01 pm | In Caityisms, Miscellaneous Crap | Leave a Comment
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broc-co-li [brok-uh-lee, brok-lee] –noun: a form of a cultivated cruciferous plant, Brassica oleracea botrytis, whose leafy stalks and clusters of usually green buds are eaten as a vegetable.

From the time Caity was very little, any time we referred to food for her to eat, we’ve called it “Num”.  This one little word has become a Noun, an Adjective and sometimes a Verb, sometimes in the same sentence.  She knows exactly what we mean when we say “Caity, eat your Num”.  We make compound words with it.  “Caity, do you want some Broccoli-Num?”, she’ll reply excitedly “Broccoli-Num!?!”.  If you want her to eat something she’s not sure of, just add -Num to the end of the word and she’ll eat.  “Oooh Caity, Turkey-Num!”

Forever, her just-before-bed-bottle has been “bubbie-Num”.  She’ll fight you for that one.

Then there are nights like tonight when she is very decided in her opinion and she. doesn’t. want. to. eat. anything. 

“No I like it meat Mommy!” (translation: I don’t want to eat this meatloaf Mommy). 
“But Caity, it’s meat-Num!”. 
“Meat-Num?” she tries a piece, “I like it meat-Num Mommy!”.  Uh-huh.

I hope it will always be this easy to communicate with her.  She’s rounding the corner on three.  I’m sure 13 will be very different.  I can’t wait.

When You Have Theatre Tickets, Don’t Give Your Husband the Remote

October 1, 2009 at 11:41 pm | In Daddy-O, Miscellaneous Crap, The Crap that Men Do | Leave a Comment
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He had one job to do tonight.  One.  I even made it easy for him.  I went to see the Symphony with Michael Burgess tonight (more on that in a bit) and I set up the recorder to ‘tape’ three shows for me, “Flash Forward”, “Grey’s Anatomy” and “Private Practice”.

I told him, just turn the TV to Channel 18 by 8:00.

“OK”.  He said.  “Put the reminder on the channel”.

I did.

I called him after dinner tonight.  Don’t forget to change the channel.  “OK” he said.

I called him before the concert started at 7:30.  Don’t forget to put the correct channel on for me.  “OK” he said.

I get home from the concert, he comes up stairs looking rather sheepish.  “I think I recorded the hockey game”.

“Pardon?”

“Yeah, Greg called just when it started and I forgot.”

“I gave you one job.”  I said, miffed.  That’s it, no more UFC recordings for him … *sigh*  Seriously honey, one job …

Time to get a PVR… 

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Back to my earlier comment.  I had a fabulous night tonight, it was so great to get out.  One of my favourite tenors, Michael Burgess was singing with the Ontario Philharmonic Orchestra.  He did a selection of music, mostly from Andrew Lloyd Webber, and it was fantastic.  The Symphony was amazing, our seats were amazing (thank you Jacqui!) and I even got to meet him after the show and received my very own autographed photo :)

The first act was awesome, Michael came on after the Symphony played a selection of songs from “West Side Story“.  So good.  I love the score from this musical.  The Symphony also played Gershwin’s “An American in Paris“, which was great too but I’m not familiar with the music.  Some of my favourites also were the selection of Beatles music.  Who knew that music from four guys with guitars and drums would translate so magnificently into a fully orchestral piece?  Awesome.

The best, however, was saved for last when Michael sang from “The Phantom of the Opera”.  His rendition of “Music of the Night” was powerful, his voice filled the theatre – an incredible range of deep tenor and soft falsetto.  His version of Gethsemane from “Jesus Christ Superstar” was inspiring.

But oh. my. god. when he sang “Bring Him Home” from Les Miserables, I was in tears – practically from the first note.  I’ve seen Les Miz about ten times, seriously.  It’s what I measure all other musicals against, to me it’s sublime perfection.  I know every word, every note from that play intimately, but I had forgotten how powerful that song was.  The words made me think about my husband “Bring him peace, bring him joy, he is young, he is only a boy”, the prayer a “father” makes to save his dying “son” (althogh Marijus wasn’t Jean Valjean’s son), thinking of all the things my husband is going through – I lost it.  I was sobbing.  Unashamedly.  My friend Elizabeth, who joined me for the evening, knows what I’m like and she was dreading the song for this reason.  Her friend, reduced to a pile of jello.

Tomorrow night’s performance is sold out, which is fantastic for the Symphony (who apparently are homeless by the way – kind of a wandering minstrel they are).  For those of you going to tomorrow’s performance, enjoy, it’s fabulous.  Michael could have probably sold out many more shows if given the opportunity.

I’m thinking of getting more tickets to later performances, they were so wonderful – and local too (Markham and Sheppard).  They have Welsh Tenors coming up and some other amazing guest musicians.  Go see them, you won’t be sorry.  If you want to know more about their upcoming shows, go to www.ontariophil.ca.

A New Season, a New Chill

September 26, 2009 at 1:27 pm | In Miscellaneous Crap, Toeses and Noses | 1 Comment
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When I woke up this morning, it was cold.  I didn’t have any windows open like I have had over the past few weeks.  Fall is here, definitely.

We’re getting new windows in 7-9 weeks and I can’t wait.  Our house was built in the early 90’s and it barely has builder-grade windows.  The windows in the front were “upgraded” to the double-paned kind that have the Argon gas between the layers.  An upgrade, but still cheap.  The windows in the back of the house are the single (!!) paned variety that keep nothing out in the Winter and nothing in during the Summer (i.e., heat and air conditioning).

For the past six years that we’ve lived here, we’ve had to put plastic over the windows in the Winter just to keep it reasonably warm in here.  We never got a kit for the back patio door though and when you sat on our couch in the winter you could feel the cold air going down your neck.  There’s a terrible draft coming from the kitchen window too, a pane of glass broke there during the previous owner’s reign and it’s the worst one in the house.

We’re getting R3 windows.  They will have three coatings of UV protection on them that block something like 95% of the UV rays from entering the house.  A benefit for sure, with the rapidly depleting Ozone layer.  The downfall is that plants will die – they need the UV rays to live.  No biggie.  I only have one plant anyway and it’s always on the brink of death because I forget to water it.

We’re getting a new patio door too.  It should be easier for the kids to use when they go outside, the current version requires a great set of muscles.

When Caity was first born, we had her sleep in a bassinette for naps instead of her crib.  When Alex was on the open shift and he’d have to get up at 3 in the morning, we’d sleep downstairs, so if she got up for a feeding, we wouldn’t wake him.  Cait was born in February so it was pretty cold at night.  We’d start off by sleeping in the family room (where the patio door is) which has a big couch that I’ve slept many a night on.  It was too cold and drafty for us so we slept in the living room instead.  Not the most comfortable, but slightly warmer at least.

It will be so nice lying in bed this winter without having to wrap a scarf around my neck because the draft is so bad.

Even the upgraded windows leak.  The one window in the hallway which currently doesn’t open will make a candle flicker if put beside it.  I’m pretty sure they’re not supposed to do that.  We’re replacing it with a casement window that does open.  The way our house is situated we rarely get a good breeze from the front or back side of the house (where all the windows are), all the breezes come from the sides, where we only have a couple of small windows that open.  I look forward to having another access to breezes when wanted.  Hopefully it’ll cut down on the air conditioning costs.

The back of the house gets exceedingly hot in the summer, mid afternoon we can’t go into the backyard because it’s too hot.  The back of the house heats up and the air conditioning is always running, trying in vain to keep up.  The sales rep said that should improve with the new windows.

Our overall heating and cooling costs should go down, which will be great on the pocketbook.  It’s not unusual for us to spend $167 on each hydro bill, plus about the same on the gas bill.  That’s a lot on a 1,500 sq foot house. 

The Bay window in the front of the house will probably be the biggest change.  Underneath the big window is wood, not aluminum.  Over the years it’s rotted inside and we’ve had many a monsoon in our living room.  The previous owners “fixed” it by putting some sort of bonding agent on it but still river ran.  We added some caulking and it’s stopped the water from penetrating into the house.  Once the new window goes in, they’ll cap it off in aluminum siding so it won’t rot away again.  We’re adding a casement window on the right side too so that we’ll have two openings – hopefully one of them will catch a breeze.

So between the energy savings and the home improvement tax credit, we might have a decent tax return next year.  I’m sure it will come in helpful especially since we expect Alex’s pay to go down even further if he is indeed able to have a transplant over the winter.

Next we’ll have to paint the garage door.  I’m thinking of a forest green shade.  Anything but that awful blue-grey that’s on it now – doesn’t quite go with red brick.  What were the previous owners thinking?  I’ll be glad when the colour’s gone.

Mommy, No I Tidered…

September 22, 2009 at 10:07 pm | In Miscellaneous Crap, The Crap that Men Do | Leave a Comment
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Translation (while throwing a fit):  I’m wide awake and ready for anything, Mommy! (Uh huh, whatever kid…)

I’m so tired.  Life has been stressful lately, and it gets more and more so each day.  Yesterday my boss told me he was quitting.  The sad part was that all of the big bosses were out of the office, he had no one to “quit to” so he had to submit his resignation via email.  Is that what this world has come to?  Electronic gadgets before the personal touch?

I’ll miss having him around the office.  He’s a great guy and part of a very small world.  His kids are the same age as mine, his sister-in-law teaches at my kids’ school, he grew up down the street from my husband.  He’s a good mentor, he’s silly as can be – which sometimes is a very good thing when life gets out of control.  But he’s also a friend.  I dread what the office will be like without him.

Morale in the office lately has sucked.  I don’t see it improving any time soon.  There’s a saying that we quote ad nauseum when ever one someone spins out of control:  “Beatings will continue until morale improves”.

That’s about all I have the strength to write about tonight.  Think I’m going to bed.  Goodnight.

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