What a Difference A Year Can Make
November 29, 2009 at 11:35 pm | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Family Ties, Miscellaneous Crap, Sisters | 1 CommentTags: Baby, Christmas, kids, Toddler meltdown
The first year that Caity saw Santa, she hated him. She was afraid of him and was not ashamed to let anyone within 100 metres know.
Last December at our Staff Children’s Christmas Party, Caity was less than thrilled at the prospect of sitting on Santa’s lap. To say the least.
This year however, Caity not only sat on Santa’s lap, but when she even told him she wanted a Princess for Christmas. I presume she means a Princess Barbie, not a real Princess.
Looking back at these pictures, I can’t believe how much she’s grown.
Lexy had a good time too. This year we brought my nephew Logan however, he was too scared to go near Santa. That was pretty much our day. Santa and a bunch of jumpy castles. They’re sleeping real well right now.
Well, It Worked…
November 22, 2009 at 9:24 am | In Caityisms, Family Ties, Miscellaneous Crap | Leave a CommentTags: kids, Toddler
Both girls were playing upstairs yesterday, each in their own room – tragedy usually ensues when they play together in one room for some reason. I went upstairs to get Cait so we could go out shopping. Her light was on and her door was closed and I could hear her playing in her room.
I opened the door, “Hi, Mommy!”. I said “Hi Cait”.
“Um Cait? What’s this doing in here?” I said pointing to her Potty which is now in her room.
“I stand on it, turn on light Mommy!” she said happily.
Her Potty is normally kept in the downstairs Powder Room as we spend 97% of our awake time on the lower level of the house.
Somehow, without me hearing her, Caity dragged this Potty from the lower level, all the way up to her room. She knew enough that it would give her the extra height she needed to reach the light switch.
Now if I can just get her to Pee in her Potty, that would be something!
How’s This For a Pick Me Up?
November 16, 2009 at 8:01 pm | In Caityisms | Leave a CommentTags: Toddler, Toddler speak
Caity, quite possibly the cutest kid ever, just came into the Family Room singing, with her hands clasped together under her chin and rocking her head back and forth:
“Misser Sun, Sun, Misser Golden Sun, peas sine down on meeeeee.
Misser Sun, Misser Golden Sun, peas sine down on meeeeee.
Misser Sun, Misser Golden Sun, peas sine down on meeeeee.
Misser Sun, Sun, Misser Golden Sun, peas sine down on, pease sine down on, pease sine down on meeeeee.”
After the grump I was in today, I needed this.
There is a downside to this cuteness however, I seem to have misplaced her off switch. She’s repeating this song over and over and over again….
I said “Caity, who taught you that song?”
Caity: “Meeeee!”
Well that clears up everything. Thanks kid.
Right now she’s busy “getting” Daddy. “I’m going to get you Buddy!” she shouts after Daddy as she chases him down the hallway. He slows down enough to let her catch him sometimes. “I’ve got you Daddy! You’re Twapped!” She giggles.
They’re cute together.
Scrooge Lives Here
November 14, 2009 at 9:55 pm | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Family Ties | Leave a CommentTags: Baby, Christmas, Grandkids, grumpy toddler, kids, Toddler, Toddler meltdown
*Update*
We raised some money, everyone attending will pay $10 per child to attend and the rest we’re hiding in the expense report system as “office supplies”.
At least the kids will see Santa this year
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My work cancelled our Kids’ Christmas party. We had 23 kids signed up at a local bouncy castle place. Santa was coming. There was going to be pizza, pop and a small gift for each child. The kids could have had their pictures taken with Santa. It would have cost us a grand total of $600. A $77 Billion company has to cancel a Kids party over $600 measly bucks. That’s really sad. Morale around the office is pretty bad right now, but this makes it worse. They had cancelled our adult party and everyone was ok with that because no one wanted to go. The boss wanted a sit down dinner dance. There’s maybe 90 of us. In previous years, we’ve always had a cocktail party where you could wander around to talk to different people, snarf down delicious appetizers and get snackered. Sit down dinner dances, which are only good if you have numbers in the hundreds, went out in the 90’s – but then our boss still refers to us women as Secretaries, so go figure. He’s stuck in a time warp.
I told Lexy yesterday that the party had been cancelled. She immediately began to cry. “No Santa??” she tearfully asked me. I felt like Scrooge.

Ok Mr. Boss man. You tell this little face she won’t get to see “Ho-Ho” this year. The above picture was Caity at Hallowe’en by the way, dressed up as a Faerie, she was so cute hugging her Magic Wand.
The kids had a great time last year, except Caity was terrified of Santa. “Noooooo Ho-Ho Momma!” she kept yelling at me, trying to crawl up my shoulder. Lexy, however, being the more materialistic of the two, tried to become his best friend.

Nooooo Ho-Ho Mommy
Well I suppose there’s always next year. They’ll still be little, right?
Makeover
November 11, 2009 at 3:00 pm | In Caityisms, Miscellaneous Crap, Product Testing | 2 CommentsTags: blog, Illustrator, InDesign, kids, makeover, Voting, website
Do you notice anything different? Do I look fabulous or what? Slimmer you say? Why thank you!
I hadn’t been happy with my Banner Header whatchamacallitthingy at the top of my blog. I had an idea of what I wanted it to look like, I just couldn’t get there. With my Desktop Publishing background, I think you can appreciate how frustrating that was for me. It’s in my head, just not in cyberspace. I can do just about anything in InDesign, but Illustrator, forget it. I love working with InDesign by the way. I’m learning new stuff every day.
I follow a couple of blogs daily. The first one (Durham Region Baby) introduced me to the second one (My Tornado Alley). Carly had her headermathingy redesigned and I thought it looked fabulous. Her BiFFy Jen O. designed it for her and I always admired it. A little while ago Jen O. redesigned her own headermathingy and I commented on it being a keeper and asked if she could help me with mine.
Well what’dyouknowaboutthat? Two rounds of comments later and we have this:

Isn’t it beautiful?
Aren’t those the most nomable toes you’ve ever seen? Believe me, there have been many a time that I’ve nibbled on those cute little tootsies - poor Caity. She was 9 weeks old in that picture. She was in the middle of a fit, hence the splayed toeses.
Now back to my rave. Jen is very talented (and hillarious to boot – read her blog) and is thinking about creating banners etc. as a side business. I certainly recommend her if anyone is interested in having something created for their website – or just a logo in general (i.e., for Letterhead, Business Cards) – you know, between the two of us Jen, we’d make a killing. We should talk
Drop Jen a line if you’re interested. You can reach Jen at mytornadoalley@gmail.com
Fabulous job, Jen. Thanks again
You Want Some Coffee With That?
November 6, 2009 at 9:24 pm | In Caityisms, Family Ties | 2 CommentsTags: Baby, kids, Toddler Talk
Caity has very fine hair. Any time she lies down for a nap/bed time/cuddle on the couch/whatever, her hair sticks out in one big matted mess at the back of her head. Every. Single. Time.
Without fail.
It looks like she’s never seen a hair brush in her life.
She’s now almost three, which is something I both love and hate at the same time. She is my baby and my last baby, yet she’s quickly becoming a big girl (potty training notwithstanding).
She’s usually the most easy-going person I’ve ever met. The house could be burning down and Cait would simply shrug her shoulders. Must be the Aquarian in her.
One thing I absolutely love about her is when she gets into a groove, she never gets out. For example, the other morning I was brushing the rat’s nest formerly known as her hair, or trying to anyway. She had something sticky in her hair, presumably from daycare (or last night’s dinner).
Caity: “Owwww Mummy!”
Me: “Sorry Caity, but you’re the one who got the knots in your hair.”
Tugging, trying to untangle, getting stuck on something in her hair….
Me: “Cait.” I stop brushing and look at her. “What did you get in your hair?”
Caity: “Donuts.”
She says that straight-faced. Every. Single. Morning.
No matter how many days in a row, I ask her what she got in her hair, she says the same thing … “Donuts”.
Doesn’t matter that she hasn’t had a donut in ages. Somehow, magically, donuts keep winding up in her tangled, matted hair.
I’m sure tomorrow morning, when I attempt to detangle her hair again, if I ask her what’s in her hair, she’ll simply say “Donuts”.
You’re cute kid. You make me laugh. Thank you.
Crazy Week
November 3, 2009 at 12:06 pm | In All Things Doodle, CKD, Caityisms, Daddy-O, Family Ties, Kidney Disease, Miscellaneous Crap, Sisters | Leave a CommentTags: Baby, CKD, facebook, Grandkids, IgA, kids, nephrophy, PD Catheter
We’re off to the hospital in a few minutes. Alex is having his PD Catheter removed because the silly thing never worked and it got infected. They want him healed before he has the transplant.
Tomorrow I’m taking the kids to the Doctor’s office to get their H1N1 shots. My doctor is holding a ‘clinic’ for his patients only on Wednesday (for high risk) and Saturday for the rest of us. I’ll go on Saturday. I’ll likely have to bring the kids too because Alex has Dialysis on Saturdays and Lord knows how long we’ll be at the office.
My Sitter’s daughter is really sick, fever, sore neck – don’t think it’s H1N1 but I’m kind of worried about her being there with the wee ones running around … She even has one of the babies sleeping in the sick girl’s room … eek.
Other than that it’s been three days I think since I’ve last visited Facebook. Apparently that’s the right amount of time to get over an addiction. I no longer think about having to check it all the time. Finally some peace.
Caity’s sleeping in her big girl bed now, has been for the past two nights. On Sunday night, we couldn’t wipe the smile off her face, she was so proud and happy to be in the bed. It was very cute, seeing her all snuggled, clutching her blankets to her face, smiling. She looked so little in the single bed, like a little baby in a crib. My baby’s growing up – she’ll be three in February. Eeek!
Lexy has decided that since Caity has a new bed, she wants one too. She tried to tell me that she’s nearly outgrown her current single bed (not likely). She said “look Mommy, my feet almost touch the bottom” … yeah almost touch the bottom in another two feet … nice try kid. You’re keeping that bed for a bit. At least until we get enough money to buy you a proper bedroom set.
A Frightening Thought
October 8, 2009 at 9:32 pm | In All Things Doodle, Caityisms, Daddy-O, Family Ties, Miscellaneous Crap, Sisters | Leave a CommentTags: birthday, kids, Things that kids say, Toddler speak
Alex and I had dinner tonight later than the girls. We made Spaghetti and the girls had grilled cheese sammies. Naturally they were still hungry and wanted to mooch some of what we had.
I made a small plate up for Lexy and I shared my dinner with Caity.
We were chatting, the four of us, while we ate. Lexy was trying to teach Caity the “proper” way to sing the “A-B-Cs”, Caity mooched most of my dinner like she’s never eaten before.
I said to Caity that when she’s a teenager, she was going to eat me out of house and home.
Lexy said, “Who Mom?”
“Both of you.” I said.
“I’m older.” Said Lexy. “When Caity’s a teenager, I’m going to be a parent!”
As the math calculation was quickly formulating in my head, I realized that when Caity turns 13, Lexy will only be 16. Her Dad and I looked at each other and eyes wide I said, “NO YOU’RE NOT!”. Obviously not realizing what she had just said, Lexy looked confused.
“Lex, you’re not even allowed to start dating until you’re 30!”
I know her comment was innocent. I know 6 is the new 15, but really why are kids in such a hurry to grow up? Slow down please my darling girl. Your sister is almost 3 and you’re both growing too fast as it is. Earlier in the evening when Lexy and I went to the store, she asked how old she had to be to sit in the front seat. I said 12. To her, the front seat is the power seat. It means you’re an adult because only big people get to sit in the front. Even at 6 years old, she understands the concept.
She’s desperate to sit up front, and I’m desperate to keep her in the back. I wonder where the time’s gone.
Tomorrow is my Parent’s 50th Wedding Anniversary. If I make that milestone with Alex, I’ll be 89 years old. My Mom tells me all the time stories about when I was Lexy’s age. I know she wonders where the time’s gone.
Next week is Alex’s 30th birthday. I bet his Mom wonders where the time has gone too…
Vocabulary Lesson
October 6, 2009 at 10:01 pm | In Caityisms, Miscellaneous Crap | Leave a CommentTags: Baby, kids, Toddler, Toddler speak, Toddler Talk
broc-co-li [brok-uh-lee, brok-lee] –noun: a form of a cultivated cruciferous plant, Brassica oleracea botrytis, whose leafy stalks and clusters of usually green buds are eaten as a vegetable.
From the time Caity was very little, any time we referred to food for her to eat, we’ve called it “Num”. This one little word has become a Noun, an Adjective and sometimes a Verb, sometimes in the same sentence. She knows exactly what we mean when we say “Caity, eat your Num”. We make compound words with it. “Caity, do you want some Broccoli-Num?”, she’ll reply excitedly “Broccoli-Num!?!”. If you want her to eat something she’s not sure of, just add -Num to the end of the word and she’ll eat. “Oooh Caity, Turkey-Num!”
Forever, her just-before-bed-bottle has been “bubbie-Num”. She’ll fight you for that one.
Then there are nights like tonight when she is very decided in her opinion and she. doesn’t. want. to. eat. anything.
“No I like it meat Mommy!” (translation: I don’t want to eat this meatloaf Mommy).
“But Caity, it’s meat-Num!”.
“Meat-Num?” she tries a piece, “I like it meat-Num Mommy!”. Uh-huh.
I hope it will always be this easy to communicate with her. She’s rounding the corner on three. I’m sure 13 will be very different. I can’t wait.
Viral, Bacterial or Allergy …?
October 4, 2009 at 11:18 am | In Caityisms, Family Ties | 2 CommentsTags: Asthma, kids, Toddler Sick
Caity came home with a cough on Friday, we didn’t think much of it because Lexy currently has that deep barrel-chested-phlegmy cough that everyone at her school currently has. We figured it was just the start of that. I gave her some cough medicine and put her to bed around the normal time she goes down. I could hear her on the monitor, moaning about an hour after I put her down. I know what this means, a fever. I know my kid very well. All week she was sleeping badly, waking several times a night with a moan or a groan and she was very tired and grumpy as well. I took her temperature and it was at 101.7 so I woke her to give her some Tylenol. That helped with the fever but in the middle of the night, Alex woke me and told me she was breathing funny. Her breathing was shallow and rapid, like she couldn’t catch her breath or was jogging – not like she had been sleeping for hours already. I had the vaporizer in her room going and I suggested letting her get some sleep. At least her fever was down. I told Alex that if she wasn’t better in the morning I’d take her to the clinic. I took her downstairs and sat on the couch with her for a couple of hours until she fell back asleep, then brought her back to bed.
In the morning I could hear her breathing from my room. It was a raspy wheeze. She still wanted to get up and play though. The fever was back.
I took her to the clinic and hoped it wouldn’t be busy – it was. When we were signing in I heard the receptionist say to someone “there’s 12 people ahead of you” – oh boy. Caity wanted me to pick her up. I put her on the counter while I handed in her health card and told the receptionist that she was having trouble breathing. She looked alarmed and said she would get the nurse to see her right now. We barely made it to the reception chairs when they called her name. I could tell the other people sitting there were a little miffed that we budded in line, but they take breathing problems seriously.
The nurse came in and did the initial triage and asked if she had Asthma. I told her not that I know of but it’s in the family, including me. They took her blood oxygen and heart rate through that little finger clip. Her oxygen was down to 91 (100 is normal) at first count and her pulse was at 161. Her little heart was working overtime trying to get enough oxygen pumping through her system. They said it was low, not good but not horrible. The doctor flew in, asked me a bunch of questions and ordered a Ventolin mask. She sat like a very good girl with the mask on for about 15 minutes and they tested her stats again – the oxygen level was up to 93 a slight improvement and her heart rate was around the same.
The doctor said she her fever and wheezing could have caused by a virus, a bacterial infection or an allergic reaction to something. Since there was no way to know for sure, he prescribed an antibiotic. He said ignoring it would be the fastest way to get to the hospital. Her other prescriptions include steroids – both liquid and an inhalant (Flovent). She also has a rescue inhaler too (Salbutamol, a.k.a. Ventolin). I had to buy an air chamber too because its impossible to get a toddler to inhale the medication properly otherwise. The doctor ordered that she stay away from other kids for a couple of days.
It was pretty friggin’ scary yesterday. She was so good at the doctors. She wanted to play but was ordered to keep still. It was hard for her.
All the medication she had yesterday knocked her out and she slept for four hours in the afternoon. Her fever broke, had some more medicine and was wired for sound. One of the effects of the Salbutamol is hyperactivity – hard to keep her quiet when she wants to run around.
I remember there were times earlier when she’d be running around and she’d start coughing. That’s the same way I was as a kid, I had “exercise induced Asthma“. I had to be excused from gym class. I rarely had a spontaneous Asthma attack, but when I did, it was horrible – my lungs felt like they were on fire and I couldn’t breathe. I know how my poor kid feels, it’s awful.
She had a better night, but she’s still a bit wheezy.
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